Hi Phil,
I just discovered this thread today, and I decided it was never too late to honor your father. Yes, he was a bit crusty around the edges, but that was one of his endearing qualities. To me, he was all bark and no bite and I reminded him of that often.
The "seniors" around here including me, go back at least 5-6 yrs and to 2 other sites. Your father was one of us. He and I used to talk for hours each week on Google talk. He had such a sense of humor and all the laughter helped lighten my load of worries.
Yes, I think Scott is right, I too see some of his qualities in you. He will always be with you and live on in your heart and mind. Your father was a good man and you will be able to honor him by living as he taught you.
May you and your family find comfort during this time of sorrow. The site isn't the same without him. He is sorely missed.....
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~ Cheryl
Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment.
Buddha
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In memory of my dear friend....
"Prowler" Victor Gray 1943-2008